And by idiot, they don’t mean that kind of idiot, you know, like the kind you see on cable news shows or explaining the nature of an invisible Rapture. They mean the Prince Myshkin kind. And by that, they don’t mean a mere naïf. They mean an innocent. And by that they don’t mean like a two-year-old is innocent, not yet morally aware. Ned, our idiot hero, is aware. He simply chooses to emphasize the highest, the noblest, the bestest, in the hopes, wan as they may be, that people will live up to his expectations.
Ned is played by Paul Rudd. You know him. He’s been in more movies than the AFL-CIO logo. Let me reel off a few: Anchorman. You remember him in that don’t you? No? How about The 40-Year-Old Virgin? Walk Hard? Dinner for Schmucks? How about earlier stuff like Wet Hot American Summer? The Object of My Affection? You know you know him, and you vaguely remember—that’s the guy. Yeah. Him. Right.
Ned sells vegetables in a farmer’s market. Right up until the point where he sells some weed to a uniformed police officer, who manages to convince Ned he was strictly trying to cope with a hard week, when in fact he was laying a trap. So Ned goes inside for eight months, which leads one to believe that this is not the first time he has donned an orange jumpsuit. Once sprung, he tries to return to his old life with his dog, Willie Nelson, and his nonviolent (read passive-aggressive) girlfriend, played by Kathryn Hahn. Unfortunately, she has taken up with another affable head-in-the-clouds type and wants Ned gone. And she’s keeping the dog.
So Ned is homeless and petless in America. Where does he turn? His family: composed of his enabling mother (Shirley Knight) and three sisters: an earthy-crunchy housewife (Emily Mortimer) married to a self-important documentarian (Steve Coogan); a would-be long-form journalist looking to get her first big story in print (Parker Posey); and a struggling comedian (Zooey Deschanel) whose oh-so-supportive girlfriend (a bespectacled Rashida Jones) is a lawyer who at one point in our story joins forces with Ned in a Laverne-and-Shirley type escapade to kidnap Willie Nelson.
It doesn’t take long for Ned, in his inimitable inadvertent way, to mess up the living arrangements of his three sisters. Not because of weed or weirdness. But because he assumes people are basically decent. And by that he means fair and honest in dealings with others. Because there’s a lot of indecency going around in the way of casual sex with virtual strangers, adultery, selfishness, and a propensity to use others as a means to an end.
By film’s end, as you might expect, Ned has managed to play boy savior to his siblings, holding a mirror up to their shattered lives such that they realize he is hardly the idiot in the family. Yes, they come to the realization that they have been so mind-numbingly mindless that they could not see what was in front of them all along: they live badly. They have hidden their true natures from even themselves by means of pop-Buddhist memes, Oprah-ized domesticity, and the inevitable rationalizations that flow from all-encompassing “work.”
The moral of our story is that honesty is the best policy. And “openness” to others is the free-est form of expression. It sounds so simple and right. Except, well, this is Hollywood. And even its moralizing needs some desanitizing.
It’s possible to be so “open” to the other that one becomes a mere experiment in someone else’s “life journey.” One can also use “honesty” as a cover for merely being frank. You know the difference between being honest and being frank, right? Abraham Lincoln was honest. Adolf Hitler was frank.
The frank person makes no bones about the fact that he is robbing you, but insists that this “admission” also makes him honest. The frank person admits to cheating you, or cheating on you, and insists that needs must be met, and what about those banks and insurance companies and Wall Streeters?
To be honest means more than calling a spade a spade. It is also means more than mere earnestness. It is a a habit of mind, heart, and soul. It is a form of personal integration — integritas — that emanates from the center and not from attempting to Crazy Glue all the broken pieces back together with hollow apologies and confessions of being merely human.
Whether Ned has that kind of integrity is hard to tell. He is self-conscious enough to know what others think of him, and also to know that he can, and often is, taken advantage of. In that respect he is more enlightened, certainly, than his truly clueless sisters and spiteful ex-girlfriend.
Which brings me to another point. The guys in this film seem to pretty much get the Big Picture. They come from a good place, as the kids use to say. The one glaring exception is Steve Coogan’s nonviolent philanderer. (He cheats on his wife but won’t allow his son to watch Peter Sellers in The Pink Panther Returns because of all the violence. It seems the kid loves the phony-baloney karate. “He’s a little boy,” says Ned. “Little boys fight. That doesn’t mean he’s going to grow up to be a fratboy rapist.”)
But almost all the women, to the extent that we get to know them, are shallow, self-absorbed, impulsive, and desperate for affirmation. I’m not sure what that’s about. (One of the credited screenwriters is the sister of the director, so it’s not like it was put together by some boys’ club.) In fact, the film gets a lot of mileage out of pointing the finger and poking fun at their sad and phony New York lives. It’s like Sex in the City, only written by someone who thought that show was full of shit. Which, of course, it was.
Which leads me to a caveat: if you are seriously put off by crude language, there’s plenty of it here. But some of these characters lead crude lives, and there are a couple of scenes where not much is left to the imagination. So be forewarned. You may want to take a pass.
But I came to like Ned. As well as Paul Rudd’s sweet performance. He grows on you. Our Idiot Brother grows on you. It charms you. (Anyway, it charmed me.) I would like to have seen them come to an even deeper understanding of their bare naked need for redemption, but you take what you can get from a mainstream comedy (like the fact that one of the characters decides to keep a baby who she initially swears will ruin her life). And this is the first time I have seen Paul Rudd do anything with a character. It would have been easy for Ned to have disintegrated into a silly and forgettable sub-Dude, a kind of early draft of Jeff Bridges’s now iconic character. Instead, you wish Ned all good things. You wish you knew Ned. Because if you really needed help, well, Ned would be a reliable first responder. Just be careful what you say around him. He’s guileless. And he’ll probably think you are too.
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